As graduation approaches, the Class of 2025 is stepping into a world filled with both uncertainty and opportunity. Should you chase prestige, financial gain, or meaningful work?

Patrick Abouchalache, professor in Strategy and Innovation at Boston University, has mentored hundreds of Gen Z students and alumni. Through surveys and in-depth conversations, he’s observed their struggles to define success beyond external rewards.

“I’ve watched them wrestle with the classic conflicts of young adulthood,” Abouchalache says. “It’s about balancing money with meaning, prestige with purpose.”

This is their advice that he’s hoping to pass on to the next generation of graduates:

DEFINE SUCCESS FOR YOURSELF 

Abouchalache found several of his alumni believe that success starts with knowing what truly matters to you.

“Success starts with self-reflection,” one alumni in the survey said. “You have to block out all the noise and define what really matters to you.”

The risk is always “getting caught up in society’s expectations of success,” a consulting alumni told Abouchalache. She struggled between a Fortune 500 job and a smaller independent firm but ultimately chose the latter. “It was the right choice for me,” she said. “Make yourself proud, not others.”

BALANCE MATTERS MORE THAN HUSTLE 

Abouchalache’s students agreed that a fulfilling life isn’t just about work but about making space for what truly sustains you. “I used to think about business 24/7,” a banking alumni shared, “But I’m happier now that I make more time for relationships – professional, personal, and, let’s not forget, myself.”

Another alumni shared, “Your goals change, so your definition of success changes. Some of the most successful people are always adapting – even when they’re already successful.”

SUCCESS IS ABOUT IMPACT, NOT JUST TITLES 

Abouchalache’s students are passing on the message that real success isn’t just about personal gain, but about the difference you make for others.

“Some people think you need to be a CEO or have a ton of money to make a difference,” one alumni told him. “Spreading happiness or joy can happen at any moment, has no cost, and the results are priceless.”

FINAL WORDS FOR GRADUATES

Your career will bring tough choices and unexpected turns. “If you stay grounded, invest in well-being, and honor your values, you won’t just have a job – you’ll build a life well lived,” Abouchalache says.

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